[Guest Author : Educated Tatya]
My psychology teacher held that everyone is bi-sexual. Conditioning, upbringing, preference and an unknown biological imperative make us decide. So we are all 20, …
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Archive for the month - November 2008
Questioning Myself
[Guest Author: Silvara]
A post inspired by another’s in a time when everyone was questioning themselves…
So….Dumbledore is gay.
Ok, before you decided to switch off your computer for …
My Coming Out Story
My dad always had this one complain, “When will you grow up!” till one day he stopped complaining. And no, his death didn’t change a thing. I believe (some) people …
100% heterosexual.
What does it mean to be heterosexual? What constitutes the state of being utterly and completely ‘straight’? Having plenty of ‘vanilla’ sex? Arranged marriage? Marrying only within your caste? Bloviating …
Kissing a Woman
I don’t know when exactly I realized that being bisexual was different. I think I sort of assumed that everyone was attracted to both men and women with equal sexual …
Why This Blog?
When I first fell in love with a woman, I was terrified. I felt completely alone and bewildered about what I was going through. I felt like there was nobody …
Can A Straight Woman And A Lesbian Woman Be Friends?
That’s like asking if a guy and girl can have a platonic friendship, isn’t it? The question is given the possibility of a sexual/romantic connection, can a relationship exist even …
Is Homosexuality A Crime?
[Guest Author : Saakshi O. Juneja]
Homosexuals. This word as most of us are aware is used for individuals who dare to voice their desire of expressing “different”…
Lack Of Social-Lezzing
No offence to my straight friends. I love them to death and honestly, couldn’t have asked for a better set of human beings who have been nothing else but fantastic …
Film Review Nina’s Heavenly Delights: The Feel Good Factor
[Guest Author : Saakshi O. Juneja]
In form Nina’s Heavenly Delights follows the storyline of the quintessential diasporic dilemma. Nina Shah, a young Indian-Scottish woman runs away on the …
An Old Conversation With My Mother About Abnormality
I wrote this post a year and a half ago and things have changed so much since then. My mother no longer asks me if The Girl is gay or …
Peach
Sometimes we are on the same train. I have a ’subject-to-last-minute-change’ schedule. Maybe so does she. Is she a student? Or a working professional?
She dresses like a teenager would, …
Ban Ban Ban
Bloody depressing to see the outcome of Proposition 8. And this is Amrika we are talking about, the so called safe haven for us gay folks. Classic example of – …
Film Review Dostana: Bring On The Caricatures
If this is the kind of sense of humor coupled with sensitivity Karan Johar and his Dostana team were talking about before the release (the NDTV interview more precisely) – …
Things To Do In Agra
Next time you’re visiting the Taj Mahal, here’s something that you can do:
Two young Swedish women tied the knot at the weekend in the first known lesbian wedding at …
Film Review Fashion: Fashionably Gay (Not)
Okay so I had to write on this. I mean how couldn’t I? After all the topic (which seems to be creating a lot of buzz) at hand is about …
Do I Look Gay Enough?
Blame it on the main stream media, Bollywood, sheer ignorance or whatever the fuck but the truth of the matter is that our Indian society refuses to think out of …
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