Comments on: My Coming Out Story http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/ Yes, we're legal! Sat, 13 Mar 2010 17:14:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: DK http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-148 DK Tue, 27 Jan 2009 18:56:01 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-148 :P...sure MJ...!!! Keep posting...i like to read all. :P …sure MJ…!!! Keep posting…i like to read all.

]]> By: MJ http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-147 MJ Tue, 27 Jan 2009 10:37:37 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-147 @ DK : Honestly, my experience says fate of a(ny) relationship is unpredictable. So don't fret too much. The only thing you can do is - give it your best. And believe me you, things aren't really that sour. You will find your missy....sooner or later. :) Until then enjoy single hood yaar, @ DK : Honestly, my experience says fate of a(ny) relationship is unpredictable. So don’t fret too much. The only thing you can do is – give it your best.

And believe me you, things aren’t really that sour. You will find your missy….sooner or later. :) Until then enjoy single hood yaar,

]]> By: DK http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-145 DK Mon, 26 Jan 2009 17:56:45 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-145 hehehe...thanks for the wishes. I m not good with words n presentation of feelings. And I can see slight mis-interpretation here. I am female, working...I was refering to other straight females who came into my life at different phases...who eventually got the man of their life. Now I feel tired from inside to hunt for anyone. lol...!!! But yea, thanks for replying, it feels nice when someone responds truly matching ur sentiments......!!! thanks.. hehehe…thanks for the wishes. I m not good with words n presentation of feelings. And I can see slight mis-interpretation here. I am female, working…I was refering to other straight females who came into my life at different phases…who eventually got the man of their life.
Now I feel tired from inside to hunt for anyone. lol…!!!
But yea, thanks for replying, it feels nice when someone responds truly matching ur sentiments……!!!
thanks..

]]> By: Broom - Editor http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-136 Broom - Editor Sat, 24 Jan 2009 19:11:23 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-136 Hi DK, I know of many gaysi men who live in India and have fulfilling lives. Have you tried to meet with other gaysis? There are a lot of support groups - Bombay Dost comes to mind. Why don't you try contacting them? I know, for me personally, the whole experience of realising my sexuality was incredibly hard to deal with till I started meeting people like me and people who accepted me with no prejudice. I wish you peace and happiness. Hi DK,

I know of many gaysi men who live in India and have fulfilling lives. Have you tried to meet with other gaysis? There are a lot of support groups – Bombay Dost comes to mind. Why don’t you try contacting them?
I know, for me personally, the whole experience of realising my sexuality was incredibly hard to deal with till I started meeting people like me and people who accepted me with no prejudice.

I wish you peace and happiness.

]]> By: DK http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-133 DK Sat, 24 Jan 2009 18:17:05 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-133 Dear MJ, While reading this blog, I felt as if someone else is telling my own story, with few ommissions, here and there. Yes, my family too still live in denail mode...yes, some of close friends too had posed such questions...it was embarassing, suddenly you feel simply out of the main stream of the society. I had never been with a guy, but have been through a phase thrice, it wud be inappropriate to call it as relationship. You rightly mentioned to Kalpana, it has its own consequences, once u come out of it...a new set of challenge engulf you, and its pretty difficult when you find urself alone. Even if u have partner, luckily, how will you give her the happiness of being in a relationship, in a society like ours. And when you fail to deliver, who will love you? I m feeling just low...had been desparate to share all I had to say. I feel tired n broken from inside, but everyday, I go to work, mingle with everyone, sharing jokes, but when i come back to my place at the end of the day, emptiness creeps inside. I struggle to maintain the bridge between outer world and inner one. I dunno how to tackle it. Dear MJ,
While reading this blog, I felt as if someone else is telling my own story, with few ommissions, here and there. Yes, my family too still live in denail mode…yes, some of close friends too had posed such questions…it was embarassing, suddenly you feel simply out of the main stream of the society.
I had never been with a guy, but have been through a phase thrice, it wud be inappropriate to call it as relationship. You rightly mentioned to Kalpana, it has its own consequences, once u come out of it…a new set of challenge engulf you, and its pretty difficult when you find urself alone.
Even if u have partner, luckily, how will you give her the happiness of being in a relationship, in a society like ours. And when you fail to deliver, who will love you? I m feeling just low…had been desparate to share all I had to say. I feel tired n broken from inside, but everyday, I go to work, mingle with everyone, sharing jokes, but when i come back to my place at the end of the day, emptiness creeps inside. I struggle to maintain the bridge between outer world and inner one. I dunno how to tackle it.

]]> By: MJ http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-82 MJ Fri, 02 Jan 2009 06:11:20 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-82 @ anand - Honestly I hadn't planned it this way, I was forced by my circumstances. So don't really consider it a "better off" option. But yes, the burden is less. As for not being sure, sweety take your time to figure yourself out. :) @ anand – Honestly I hadn’t planned it this way, I was forced by my circumstances. So don’t really consider it a “better off” option. But yes, the burden is less.

As for not being sure, sweety take your time to figure yourself out. :)

]]> By: anand. http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-79 anand. Wed, 31 Dec 2008 15:19:13 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-79 /*(some) people hide behind (their) immaturities, pretend that they don’t take life seriously and that they are well-in tuned with reality.*/ Struck home..... am wordless......... hits me in the face......... Atleast you are better off on account of having come clear..... Am still a couple of phases behind not even sure of what i am..... Good to know i am not the only one......thanks.. /*(some) people hide behind (their) immaturities, pretend that they don’t take life seriously and that they are well-in tuned with reality.*/

Struck home….. am wordless……… hits me in the face………

Atleast you are better off on account of having come clear….. Am still a couple of phases behind not even sure of what i am…..
Good to know i am not the only one……thanks..

]]> By: Gaysi: The Gay Desi | DesiPundit http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-60 Gaysi: The Gay Desi | DesiPundit Mon, 15 Dec 2008 07:16:31 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-60 [...] India and among Indians. A group of bloggers provide different perspectives ranging from heartfelt coming out stories, the apprehensions of a straight person towards gays to funny (and bizzarre) anecdotes about what [...] [...] India and among Indians. A group of bloggers provide different perspectives ranging from heartfelt coming out stories, the apprehensions of a straight person towards gays to funny (and bizzarre) anecdotes about what [...]

]]> By: MJ http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-31 MJ Tue, 02 Dec 2008 06:36:31 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-31 @ Kalpana - Glad to know my words helped. As for coming out to the world, honestly it has its consequences therefore take your own sweet time. Good Luck. :) @ Kalpana – Glad to know my words helped.

As for coming out to the world, honestly it has its consequences therefore take your own sweet time.

Good Luck. :)

]]> By: Kalpana http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/comment-page-1/#comment-27 Kalpana Thu, 27 Nov 2008 17:06:10 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/2008/11/27/my-coming-out-story/#comment-27 Hi MJ.Congratulations at being reborn. I havent reached there yet, or maybe just that the journey is that bit different for each one of us.I'm in love , fortunate enough to be loved back by her.Trying to accept and understand myself better. The clarity is so vivid and light.. everything is in place.And yet, coming out to the world is a different story..Am so glad I came by this blog.Am so glad you can live in your own skin .. Hi MJ.Congratulations at being reborn. I havent reached there yet, or maybe just that the journey is that bit different for each one of us.I’m in love , fortunate enough to be loved back by her.Trying to accept and understand myself better. The clarity is so vivid and light.. everything is in place.And yet, coming out to the world is a different story..Am so glad I came by this blog.Am so glad you can live in your own skin ..

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