Comments on: Advice For Desi Parents With A Gaysi Child http://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/ The Gay Desi Fri, 10 Feb 2012 10:53:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Anuraghttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-5369 Anurag Fri, 03 Sep 2010 05:11:17 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-5369 Can someone please anonymously send this to my parents in the mail please? lol Can someone please anonymously send this to my parents in the mail please? lol

]]> By: DKhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3555 DK Wed, 19 Aug 2009 20:48:45 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3555 deeps, its not about convincing 'others', but 'us' only. When I first realised that I might not be a straight, I was desparate to find someone who could tell me what is going on with me. Ofourse, I failed to find anyone. And since that day, almost 9 years, it had been a single mind duel, needless to mention, interfered a lot in my professional and personal zones. It took me 9 years to realised that unless I accept myself as what I am (queer) I shall not be truly happy from inside. I dunno whats the next step. I do believe if I had got some help that time, things could have been lot easier now for me, personaly. You know what? I love this blog. I has helped me in random ways. deeps, its not about convincing ‘others’, but ‘us’ only. When I first realised that I might not be a straight, I was desparate to find someone who could tell me what is going on with me. Ofourse, I failed to find anyone. And since that day, almost 9 years, it had been a single mind duel, needless to mention, interfered a lot in my professional and personal zones. It took me 9 years to realised that unless I accept myself as what I am (queer) I shall not be truly happy from inside. I dunno whats the next step.
I do believe if I had got some help that time, things could have been lot easier now for me, personaly.
You know what? I love this blog. I has helped me in random ways.

]]> By: deepseashttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3554 deepseas Wed, 19 Aug 2009 03:13:25 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3554 Broom - true, thats the best way to deal with it. And even though I have put that comment in a rather light note, it is really no laughing matter. It is not always easy for 'straight' people to come to terms with it-even though they may not want to hate you for it. Broom – true, thats the best way to deal with it. And even though I have put that comment in a rather light note, it is really no laughing matter. It is not always easy for ‘straight’ people to come to terms with it-even though they may not want to hate you for it.

]]> By: Broom - Editorhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3553 Broom - Editor Wed, 19 Aug 2009 02:01:47 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3553 @Silvara - You don't need to read these FAQueers to be an open minded parent. @Silvara – You don’t need to read these FAQueers to be an open minded parent.

]]> By: Broom - Editorhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3552 Broom - Editor Wed, 19 Aug 2009 02:00:50 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3552 Now ladies, the best way to deal with that question is to tell people to mind their own business. That's true whether you're straight or gay. Now ladies, the best way to deal with that question is to tell people to mind their own business. That’s true whether you’re straight or gay.

]]> By: deepseashttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3551 deepseas Tue, 18 Aug 2009 17:48:41 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3551 So am imagining myself answering the question 'So, what is your future plan?" Me - err..first moving out, finding a job in Delhi/Mumbai/Bangalore and moving in with my girlfriend. Then focussing on immigrating to Canada/Holland/NZ. Eventually marrying my girlfriend and then like every couple having kids. (should I also throw in an idea about gender reassignment or will that be too much? :) ] I am really itching to try out this answer on some unsuspecting soul. So am imagining myself answering the question ‘So, what is your future plan?”

Me – err..first moving out, finding a job in Delhi/Mumbai/Bangalore and moving in with my girlfriend. Then focussing on immigrating to Canada/Holland/NZ. Eventually marrying my girlfriend and then like every couple having kids. (should I also throw in an idea about gender reassignment or will that be too much? :) ]

I am really itching to try out this answer on some unsuspecting soul.

]]> By: deepseashttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3550 deepseas Tue, 18 Aug 2009 17:19:04 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3550 Broom..just thanks! DK - no you are not the only one living a dual life. I so know how it feels when people ask such questions and we have no answer -partly coz we suspect that they cannot really take our answer. Plus of course the awkwardness of feeling the 'queer one out'. Broom..just thanks!

DK – no you are not the only one living a dual life. I so know how it feels when people ask such questions and we have no answer -partly coz we suspect that they cannot really take our answer. Plus of course the awkwardness of feeling the ‘queer one out’.

]]> By: DKhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3548 DK Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:27:31 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3548 Can we have also for those who have no idea how to come out of closet? I am sure I am not the only one (really hope so..)who are living a dual life, and when encountered with questions like-"So, what is your future plan?" we actually draw BLANK, and we just delay this question at max. May be I am the only one who feels so. Can we have also for those who have no idea how to come out of closet? I am sure I am not the only one (really hope so..)who are living a dual life, and when encountered with questions like-”So, what is your future plan?” we actually draw BLANK, and we just delay this question at max.
May be I am the only one who feels so.

]]> By: Silvarahttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/18/advice-for-desi-parents-with-a-gaysi-child/#comment-3547 Silvara Tue, 18 Aug 2009 06:39:28 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=610#comment-3547 Awesome idea - if in 15-20 years time my future child comes out - I'll refer fondly back to these :D Awesome idea – if in 15-20 years time my future child comes out – I’ll refer fondly back to these :D

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