Comments on: FAQueer: How Do I Know If My Child Is A Lesbian? http://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/ The Gay Desi Wed, 23 May 2012 17:16:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Shawnhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-6407 Shawn Sun, 03 Oct 2010 01:32:03 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-6407 @Rashmi I agree with you. Why should parents worry if your child is gay or straight just support them and love them the way they are so they wont turn into a Rebel. I realise i'm gay when i was 9years old. Even since i was a kiddo i used to have a crush on girls. I used to think something is wrong and then once when i was going through some article in newspaper i came to know that i'm not abnormal as i used to think about myself. I came out in front of my mom and then i got a suprise when she told me 'i knew that before you told, but i wanted you to be sure about it'. So now its been 9years and am happyly Gay and totally out and its all cos of my mom's support. And ya i've been a topic of people and a victim of raised Eyebrows from many but it dosnt bother me anymore coz i'm totally comfortable being who i'm. :-) @Rashmi I agree with you.
Why should parents worry if your child is gay or straight just support them and love them the way they are so they wont turn into a Rebel.
I realise i’m gay when i was 9years old. Even since i was a kiddo i used to have a crush on girls. I used to think something is wrong and then once when i was going through some article in newspaper i came to know that i’m not abnormal as i used to think about myself.
I came out in front of my mom and then i got a suprise when she told me ‘i knew that before you told, but i wanted you to be sure about it’.
So now its been 9years and am happyly Gay and totally out and its all cos of my mom’s support. And ya i’ve been a topic of people and a victim of raised Eyebrows from many but it dosnt bother me anymore coz i’m totally comfortable being who i’m. :-)

]]> By: Broom - Editorhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-4292 Broom - Editor Tue, 08 Jun 2010 03:26:39 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-4292 Give yourself time. It gets better, trust me. Give yourself time. It gets better, trust me.

]]> By: SLDhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-4288 SLD Tue, 08 Jun 2010 01:37:17 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-4288 I've always been different, I never have been a girly girl, and I've never been boy crazy. When I was 12 I had my first crush on a girl. I thought there was something wrong with me at first. But, until last year I didn't know my real truth until one day it just hit me. I knew I was a lesbian. It's still hard for me to accept, and I think I'll get through this soon. I’ve always been different, I never have been a girly girl, and I’ve never been boy crazy. When I was 12 I had my first crush on a girl. I thought there was something wrong with me at first. But, until last year I didn’t know my real truth until one day it just hit me. I knew I was a lesbian. It’s still hard for me to accept, and I think I’ll get through this soon.

]]> By: Rashmihttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-4112 Rashmi Mon, 26 Apr 2010 04:30:13 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-4112 Big yay to "Jennifer Capriati" ... OMG, she is totally cute! BTW, I would wonder why parents would even bother to find out? How does it even matter? I would rather put my thoughts in making my child happy and loving rather than being worried about whom she is going to knock. Come on momma. If you really care for your child, most probably she and her partner are going to love you and take care of you at old times. Just chill. Big yay to “Jennifer Capriati” … OMG, she is totally cute!

BTW, I would wonder why parents would even bother to find out? How does it even matter? I would rather put my thoughts in making my child happy and loving rather than being worried about whom she is going to knock. Come on momma. If you really care for your child, most probably she and her partner are going to love you and take care of you at old times. Just chill.

]]> By: DKhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-3566 DK Sat, 22 Aug 2009 14:09:31 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-3566 Hey Broom, how did you met TG and who really broke the ice? Well, can we have another post where everyone can share their love stories [:P]...plz..plz..!!! Hey Broom, how did you met TG and who really broke the ice? Well, can we have another post where everyone can share their love stories [:P]…plz..plz..!!!

]]> By: DKhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-3564 DK Fri, 21 Aug 2009 13:16:24 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-3564 yahoo :P...!!! yahoo :P …!!!

]]> By: Broomhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-3562 Broom Thu, 20 Aug 2009 21:24:24 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-3562 @DK: When I fell in love with TG, I called myself 'bisexual' to ease into being gay. This is not uncommon! Not that everyone who says they are bi is actually gay. Anyway, I met these people through my other blog. Blogging saved my life, I swear! @DK: When I fell in love with TG, I called myself ‘bisexual’ to ease into being gay. This is not uncommon! Not that everyone who says they are bi is actually gay.

Anyway, I met these people through my other blog. Blogging saved my life, I swear!

]]> By: DKhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-3561 DK Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:52:19 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-3561 One more: My parents know about this big lacking element in me as a female. Also, I have met only straight females so far, may be bi, to be more precise. I really haven't met a single lesbian :( who only likes females till now. Where did u find all three types? I am really curious. One more: My parents know about this big lacking element in me as a female.
Also, I have met only straight females so far, may be bi, to be more precise. I really haven’t met a single lesbian :( who only likes females till now.
Where did u find all three types? I am really curious.

]]> By: DKhttp://gaysifamily.com/2009/08/20/faqueer-how-do-i-know-if-my-child-is-a-lesbian/#comment-3560 DK Thu, 20 Aug 2009 17:48:20 +0000 http://gaysifamily.com/?p=662#comment-3560 Very very interesting. I fall in the category of the ones resembling a man. Trust me, I find it really challenging visiting Parlours. I always get explicit instructions as how to stretch for threading etc. And I always hear giglings and often catch suppressed mysterious smiles, and yes, also feel other customer's eyes on me all the time. By this time, I have learnt to laugh with them at my ignorance about girly-stuffs..:D. I really find it extremely hard to shop for myself. :( Forget about picking something for functions. I would be realy glad if someone cud do that for me. I am really hopeless :P... Very very interesting. I fall in the category of the ones resembling a man. Trust me, I find it really challenging visiting Parlours. I always get explicit instructions as how to stretch for threading etc. And I always hear giglings and often catch suppressed mysterious smiles, and yes, also feel other customer’s eyes on me all the time.
By this time, I have learnt to laugh with them at my ignorance about girly-stuffs..:D. I really find it extremely hard to shop for myself. :( Forget about picking something for functions. I would be realy glad if someone cud do that for me. I am really hopeless :P …

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