This recent post on Gaysi by Chicklet has got me thinking about a conversation I had some time ago with a very good friend of mine. We were generally chitty-chatting about our current partners (yes…shoot me), when somewhat out of context she remarked – “At least I know with her all can be sorted in bed”.
Now I consider myself a very sexual person. Yes, the sorts who regard sexual chemistry much higher than…let’s say one’s intellectualness. But I do believe that matters of importance….issues which require serious attention…should to be sorted outside the bed room and not init.
The sole reason being; there’s no real communication (sorry Missy, Oooosss and aahsss don’t exactly fall under this category). A discussion over sex is more like turning a blind eye and telling the heart “Aal izz well”. Yet many of us continue to follow this trend of replacing conversation with sex.
Fucked up no? And yours truly at times is no different.
Anyway without beating around the bush (no pun intended), tell me Ladies and let’s be honest here how many of you out there use sex as way of getting out of serious one-on-one talk with their partner. Or who’s been in a situation where in their partner’s response to “We need to talk!” has only ended up in pinning the other in bed.
Stumble it!
baby, sex is the most effective NON-VERBAL way of communication
Human intimacy is a significant mode of communication between people, no ?
and in my experience sex with women is far more deeper & connecting.
to get to the point .. remember Casablanca ? so many questions; only one answer * kiss *
but on an honest note, you can never use sex to avoid serious conversations. so, best is to bring it up on a table , resolve it & then hit the den for some action!
Funny..huh…tell me something new!
Well maybe it differs from person to person but when in bed the only talk I’m interested in is the X-rated one.
So yes, start on the table and end in bed sounds much much better. Kinky!
Ps – you dating?
Total avoidance of issue is the way to go
Unfortunately the issue remains after the post orgasmic glow has faded.