Perfect Date

[Guest Author : n]

There’s Someone New in my life. Someone, who helped make today a pretty perfect Sunday. Someone who made having to work on a Sunday less painful by promising to cook specially for me, to take me for a movie, and then, if I felt like it, offered the promise of More.

Someone who dimmed the lights, so that when I came back, my mirrored curtains shone in a soft yellow glow. Who spent the day gathering ingredients and putting them together to create a meal that made the entire house smell divine. Someone who had the table set; the chair, placed just so. Who popped the wine bottle and kept it ready, with two chilled glasses, while I showered. Someone who didn’t take calls while we ate together. Who talked and laughed and listened.

Then, meal done, took me for a film. Discussed it; before, during and after. And then, as promised, when I asked for More, took me on a drive. So I could take in the sights and smells of Mumbai at night. The city silent, yet throbbing with energy. Swirling lights and sluggish breeze. And understood why I was silent, awed.

The perfect date.

Almost.

Perfect, except for the fact that the Someone New is not male (and that is the way I swing). SN is the new flatmate. But going by experiences of the past fortnight, interesting/fun times lie ahead.

I’ve never lived in a hostel and shared a room with another woman. My friends have mostly been male. My last attempt at sharing a flat with members of the female sex was aborted before we even found a flat. Now, I’m living with someone who I’d met only once, for 20 minutes, before we decided to take the plunge.

Like I said, interesting times ahead.

Comments

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  1. Hmmm. Interesting indeed.

    • n

      [la vida loca]
      thanks!

      [MJ]
      Happy to be of service ;)

      [baby sher]
      errrm, sorry?

      [chicklet]
      Let’s see what more I can come upw ith :)

      [Broom]
      I’m glad, editor sahiba

  2. MJ

    Gee you just sorted out our biggest worry; What women want?

    Awesome date tips. Thanks. ;)

  3. Baby Sher

    After reading this post my GF mails it to me, highlighting the * woo me this way * stuff. Thanks, for the new added pressure.

    Gee I wish I was a Gay man.

  4. Chicklet

    :) tats how it happened with me the first time!! and it was an hell of an awesome tme ! Thank You for bringing back memories.

    Lovely post btw. Hope to see you here more often.

  5. Took me back to the beginning of my courtship with my partner. Ah the good old days!

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