I agree with you that it is the right thing to do – not to marry a straight girl and I agree that it will make both of you very miserable.
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Opinion & Personal Stories
Opinion & personal stories category consists of random thoughts, viewpoints and experiences of Gaysis (and supporters) about the world around them.
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Hello, Closet, My Old Friend
How long have I been out of the closet? Do I start the count from when I first came out to someone other than my partner?
It Was Nice To See You
That one night stand was devoid of any glamour but full of sweetness. I misremembered your generosity as love.
I Swore I Wouldn’t Cry
When the news first came in a week ago, it didn’t seem real. The legendary Ms. D had passed away.
Chicken & Chorizo
It’s a gorgeous Sunday today. The sun is out, beautiful people everywhere lounging about in the park, the duck pond is glorious and the park looks amazing!
Interview : Editors of Soon To Be Launched Book “Close, Too Close”
Queer lives are becoming increasingly visible in writings and art, in demanding for rights, in challenging the law, in voicing protests, in starting organisations, in making an online presence; robust, vibrant and diverse voices are being heard in India and South Asia. This book is an attempt to add to those voices.
The Views Have Been Spectacular
Our amazing friend Deen shared this video that he’s created with us. Warning: Bring a box of tissues, because you WILL cry.
Ask Freud : You Are Who You Are
The battle that you seem to have is between two parts of your ‘self’, your old You (Desi-you) and your new You (Gay-you).
The CookBoy On Friendship And the Kentish Countryside!
Armed with our Lonely planet, we set off on Saturday afternoon. Motorway driving is incredible fun especially when you are cruising at ‘ridiculous miles an hour’ blaring camp Bollywood classics.
What Is Pride Anyway?
I have been asking myself this question for months after 2011s pride. Am I proud enough to celebrate MY PRIDE?
Diamonds
I looked at my mother, glittering in the smooth sunlight on Michigan Avenue, she was dripping in an excess of diamonds.
Ask Pink Freud : Bi-Monthly Column
In this column I will answers questions and queries based on my training and experience with my clients.
Meet The CookBoy
I live with my husband J. Well, civil partner. Whatever… it depends on how politically correct you want to be about it. But either way its all legal!
Fundamentalists
The man says to me “You know, I have been watching you for some time now. I have been observing you. And you see, god talks to me, he sends me messages”.
Blood Donation Provision ~ MSM
It is indeed an assault on the self-respect of all MSM. And hence, my sympathies and support to all gay men denied of the noble cause.
The Dirty Talk Experience (Finale)
We only had 20 days to put everything together.
Aam Gaysi : I Am An Undocumented Immigrant
My first girlfriend outed me when we were 13. I told her that I loved her. She asked me what I meant by that – whether I loved her in the same way a guy loves a girl.
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