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Opinion & personal stories category consists of random thoughts, viewpoints and experiences of Gaysis (and supporters) about the world around them.
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A Note From An Offended South Indian Gaysi
Let’s Play Long Distance-Long Distance.
Long distance relationships are hard. People have told me that before. But fuck, I never knew how hard till a few months back. Great conversations and intellectual stimulation keep you going. But there’s only so far you can use those two to prod your relationship along. But what comes after you’ve pushed it as far as it can go?
What You NEVER Say To A Lesbian!
Let me make this clear. This is not to express any form of hatred towards men. I don’t hate you. This is just a quick guide to things you should never say to your lesbian friends or any lesbian. NEVER.
Gaysi Podcast 5.0 : The Indecent Podcast (Part 2)
Just when you thought we were BAD … We (MJ) get BADDER !
Now that you have been listening to our podcasts for a while, you may notice a pattern…
Queer Tasveer (Summer 2011) Contest Results
Queer Tasveer, Summer 2011 Photo contest results are here!
The Break-Up
I tried to think of a more subtle title, but couldn’t. There’s nothing subtle or artful or profound in the end of what was once a beautiful relationship. And I’ll be honest – it was the best relationship I’ve ever been in, to date.
Queer Time Machine
If you could go back in time with a Queer Time Machine, that would take your out and proud self, back in time, What would you do? What parts of your life would you go back to? What things would you do differently?
Remembering Gaurav : A Report on Dupont Vigil
“I did not know Gaurav Gopalan personally. But after attending his vigil on Sunday night at Dupoint, I wish I had.” says Anita Balan.
Gaysi Podcast 5.0 : The Indecent Podcast (Part 1)
3..2…1 …Listen to our sexy voices…
Thats right peeps, we’re back ! With a brand new podcast ! And this time… Its positively scandalous…*rawwwr*
Good Night Prince! : A Tribute To Gaurav Gopalan
Friends & family of Gaurav Gopalan as well as politicians and LGBT community activists gathered in Dupont Circle Sunday night for a candlelight vigil in memory of Gopalan, who was killed in Columbia Heights earlier this month. Shiva Subbaraman shares her memories and pays tribute to Gaurav.
DeSiCiTi And My GaySiCiTi
I got word on Facebook about a new TV show, DeSiCiTi, via Brown Girl Magazine and Good Indian Girl.
DeSiCiTi is allegedly a desified version of Sex and the …
Mumbai Uprising?
So this fabulous Sunday morning while we were prepping ourselves for another Gaysi Podcast, I noticed some kind of chaos on multiple community pages on Facebook. A deeper look and this story unfolded- Mumbai city. Queer Party. Rented Bungalow in the suburbs. Police raid. 133 men detained. Media exposé. A case of “indecent behavior” filed.
Jab We Met : Believe In Love!
US based Maharashtrian couple Sameer and Amit share their story in this edition of Jab We Met. They are together for seven years, got married a year ago, in an elaborate Indian wedding and now lead a happy and fulfilled life in the Midwest.
(Delhi) Dating Diaries
So what does one do when you go out on a date with someone special and new in your life? Am sure you guys can think of plenty naughty things to do with your Gaysi Girl’s but as far as the old school me goes, I like the build up of getting to know someone romantically to be slow and subtle.
How I Became a Faerie
The email read: “Do you want to come play in the woods? There’ll be lots of cute guys…” It was a Radical Faerie gathering at Breitnebush Springs in Oregon. My immediate response was: No. No way. I don’t do that sort of thing. And I paused just as I was about to move on to the next email, and my second thoughts said: What are you afraid of?
The Third Breast
Born with three nipples, she was raised like a man. She defied gender roles and challenged the sexist notions of the world. She was fearless, powerful and strong until… she met him.
10 Things That Happen In A Lesbian Relationship
If you’re a veteran lesbian, chances are you’ve been in at least one long term relationship with a girl. You may have noticed that it was scary and difficult. However, if you are new to the scene and curious about the future, here is a list of things you can expect to find yourself experiencing once you trap the lady love of your life.
A Letter On Being Fat
I grew up feeling very uncomfortable about my breast. According to me they were not supposed to grow. I spent years wearing bra sizes way too small for me because all I wanted was for them to vanish.
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The Cookboy
Chicklet – Ill do some Asian recipes soon.
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The Cookboy
MJ – what do you mean by Diet (Quick)? If you mean light, then these recipes...
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The Cookboy
Beautifully written. Really enjoyed reading this.
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zENAWordWarrior
Sweet! Now I need my CookGirl!
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zENAWordWarrior
With such economy of language, you say...
Loved this! Thanks for sharing
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Chicklet
I’m definitely gonna try this and get perfect before i meet her again…...
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Chicklet
fantastic. mistake overturned = lesson learned ! looking forward to reading more from...
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Chicklet
Love is a strange whirl, isn’t ? i call it a fool’s paradise!
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