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Are you a Gold Star Gay?

Posted by Shri on Jun 5 2011 at 8:24 pm

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    Shri

    This question is just for fun! Don't worry, we won't cancel your "Gaysi" card, if you aren't !
    And no brownie points, if you are one! He he :)

    PS : If you are wondering what is "Gold Star Gay", here is the definition from Urban dictionary:
    Gold Star Gay - A gay person who has never had sex with the opposite gender.

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    MJ

    I AM! Women corrupted me from an early age. And I mean really EARLY!

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    dpnwta

    I am not a Gold Star Dyke and this information was something that one of my ex-partners would use as an insult every time we had a fight. I don't believe this label, but because I believe that one's sexuality is a spectrum of a fluid nature and exploration should very much be a part of it. I have also been a 'late bloomer', lemme call myself a lil more experienced than you Goldies! :P

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    Rashmi

    how would you count pansexuals then?
    link: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=pansexual

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    kinsey3

    Here's a thoughtful piece by a gay guy on how terms such as "gold-star" expose the biphobia within gay and lesbian communities... http://news.change.org/stories/biphobia-the-gay-side

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    Rashmi

    Great link kinsey. But I think the post here is free from the biphobia :)

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    Madhu

    lol, count me in the club.. Although I did once seriously fall for a woman. :P

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    Shri

    Yes, yes! Thanks @Rashmi for coming to my rescue! @Kinsey It wasn't meant to be Bi-phobic, but I do agree though, terms like this inadvertently cause some phobia, like @Dpnwta wrote. @Madhu That is interesting! Tell us more :)

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    GlideRide

    Gold Star lesbian here too ! :) :) Proud to be !

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    Queer Coolie

    I have a Gold star! I have Gold star ! *na ni na ni poo poo* :D

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    Anurag

    I agree with dpnwta that sexuality is fluid, and "gold star" enforces the binary. I am not a gold star... however, I wish I was. Therefore, I AM giving brownie points to those of you who are :P (just kidding kinda).

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