I do not believe in tags or labels as sexuality is fluid . You can like apples one day and then one fine day discover oranges are better. Currently from many years now, I have been into men – so you can call me gay if need be.
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MJ Feb 10 2011
— 12:34 am Comments
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I do not believe in tags or labels as sexuality is fluid . You can like apples one day and then one fine day discover oranges are better. Currently from many years now, I have been into men – so you can call me gay if need be.
MJ Jan 20 2011
— 12:18 am Comments
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It’s not a black and white question. I was confused, sure. But personally, I never had qualms about it. When I am definite that I want something then I make it explicit, but before that I have to search every corner inside me to know that I want it. Be it my sushi or my lover.
Shri Jan 8 2011
— 6:51 am Comments
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Embrace change. There are things about each other that will change over time, sometimes things even become exactly the opposite of what you have now. Be open to your core beliefs being challenged. The perspective is not only yours, but yours and his together. Prepare to know more about yourself. I have seen myself go through feelings that I had never imagined I would go through, like jealousy, possessiveness, emotional dependency etc.
MJ Jan 6 2011
— 11:56 am Comments
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I’ve become more self confident in dealing with the ‘sexuality’ subject and marriage related queries. I think they’re getting to feel and perceive the adult in me.
Shri Dec 31 2010
— 12:51 am Comments
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Isn’t time that we meet Mrs. & Mrs. Smita? Isn’t time
that we listen to the romantic story “When Hari met Sreeni”? Don’t
you want to know how our Dilwala, Dulha le gaya? Don’t you want to
hear Sanjana’s story “Mein Preeti ki Diwaani hoon”?
MJ Dec 30 2010
— 12:35 am Comments
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I have suffered all my life, staying in the closet, hiding who I am. I cant do that anymore, so I said no to the policy. As of today, I don’t have a relationship with my family. I still hope my folks will come around or at least meet me in the middle someday.
MJ Dec 16 2010
— 12:26 am Comments
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An anonymous person messaged all my batch mates in college that I was lesbian. This was then forwarded to everyone I knew as part of a news flash message campaign by my batch mates. A poll along with my photograph was also put up on the orkut page of my college to vote if I was lesbian or not.
Shri Nov 19 2010
— 12:11 am Comments
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I first came out to them when I was 19. For almost a year I had been dropping hints and when confronted I came out to them as a gay celibate person. It climaxed when I made them watch the NDTV show “Chennai Speaks out”.
MJ Nov 4 2010
— 8:39 am Comments
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He asked a direct question, and got a direct ‘yes’! Next thing I know, he wrote a mail to the Director about allotting batches, and addressed me as ‘Mridul’ and ‘he’ (since all my papers are in my formal name and designated gender, that’s how all my new employers always begin knowing me). The Director just asked a handful of questions about how comfortable I would be, getting officially addressed as Mridul and Sir (by students), and when he saw me confident – he just sent out a mail telling everyone about my decision and that he expected matured cooperation from all!
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