How long have I been out of the closet? Do I start the count from when I first came out to someone other than my partner?
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Posts tagged - Brutally Honest
It Was Nice To See You
That one night stand was devoid of any glamour but full of sweetness. I misremembered your generosity as love.
I Swore I Wouldn’t Cry
When the news first came in a week ago, it didn’t seem real. The legendary Ms. D had passed away.
What Is Pride Anyway?
I have been asking myself this question for months after 2011s pride. Am I proud enough to celebrate MY PRIDE?
What Do I Do?
What do I do when an attractive young man sits across me with his legs spread so wide that his thighs and organ strain against the fabric of his jeans? …
Fundamentalists
The man says to me “You know, I have been watching you for some time now. I have been observing you. And you see, god talks to me, he sends me messages”.
Blood Donation Provision ~ MSM
It is indeed an assault on the self-respect of all MSM. And hence, my sympathies and support to all gay men denied of the noble cause.
The Dirty Talk Experience (Finale)
We only had 20 days to put everything together.
The Heart Shaped Darkness And Other Maladies
Our friends at Mumbai Boss have alerted us to a new and fabulous product that will scrub out the unsightly darkness between our legs. To be honest, I don’t understand all …
I Hate You…Like I Love You
I often found myself on my couch staring at the ceiling wondering, “How do I stop thinking about my ex-girlfriend?” Dammit! I had to THINK about how NOT to think!
The S Word
A conversation on the changing visual landscape of intimacies and desire in Indian Cinema, image & contemporary art.
Today
Just before this picture was taken, it appears like
The barber had put a bowl upside down on your head
And trimmed what laid outside of it.
The Lab
Enter the dark corridors, filled with masculinity, men with hard-ons, semi-erections, fucked-up arses, lubed-up arses, rubbered dicks, noses sniffing poppers and other addictive substances, slippery warm penises entering raging intestines and mouths, hands groping all over the place – nipples, butts, muscles, hair, mouths, feet, balls, name it, you have it.
It Is Okay To Be Queer
Because this lovely lady asked for our opinion on one of her reader’s plight, and the generous soul that I am who believes in parting with information even when …
Dharun Ravi : Punished for Being An Immigrant
Congratulations gay people. We’ve arrived. If someone bullies or intimidates us and we take our lives as a result of their douche-bagery, we can rest assured that they will be convicted of bias-intimdiation and possibly, sentenced harshly. And in the case of Dharun Ravi, also face deportation to a country that he probably does not remember. I hope everyone is happy that justice has been served.
Annual Housekeeping Contest!
It’s our annual house-keeping time. This means we are going to open our cabinet of whisky and hope that everything will just clean itself out like magic.
Brown and Gay
For the most part South Asians are not the most comfortable talking about sex and sexuality. Is it because we aren’t having any? Funny, I didn’t think the Kama Sutra was for coffee table reading, nor did I think that population of India surpassed a billion through abstinence. Yet we shy away from these discussions, push them into a category of shame and turn a blind eye.
Fisking Firdaus
In a “wildly” convoluted essay, Firdous contends that maybe allowing homosexuals their rights will lead to the destruction of the world as we know it. Never being the one for open letters, I’ll just use this as feedstock for sarcasm.
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