“You will not lie, you will not back bite… you will never sleep with anyone else”.
These are often the common pledges to a relationship. But this may not always be the basis of a strong bond. What is so surprising about couples is the set of rules they tie around each other. If they were to actually work, we could create a whole compilation of lesbian laws. Some people would follow it and be unsuccessful while others can still win by breaking these norms apart.
What makes two people grow closer is the amount of fun they have with each other. Do not get me wrong. I am not against love, but there is something we all can ponder on.
You may have come across many people who are disloyal in their love life. But the partners get back together because they do not hide the truth from each other. Maybe we have to rework on the rules, if there has to be any.
TRANSPARENCY may be more viable than LOYALTY, and that my friends will keep your relationship sailing smoothly out of the wild waves and treacherous rocks.
Hi there,
I agree, fun in any relationship is crucial. And rules according to me are mean for people who need guidance for even breathing.
There shouldn’t be any rules 🙂 that is if the human mind could function without them.
But I disagree with “TRANSPARENCY may be more viable than LOYALTY, and that my friends will keep your relationship sailing smoothly out of the wild waves and treacherous rocks.”
Transparency shouldnt be your free pass to disloyalty, don’t get me wrong transparency is so much better than tying one self down in order to be loyal but is it a different path to follow. I think it is a confluence of both – transparency is of no use if u are not loyal and vice versa…
Hey Sonali,
Think I agree with you there..
Transparency shouldn’t be you free pass to disloyalty.. as that does mean that the other person does not hurt when loyalty is compromised.
Eventually trust is not built “only” on the fact that one knows everything about the person, but also on how dependable the person is.
Interesting thought.
I agree, TC. Fun MUST be had 🙂 heck, when things go topsy turvy – it would be nice to come back to the one thing two people always had going on with each other – and for that to be fun !